I was talking to a bunch of my male colleagues yesterday and they were discussing about one of my part timers who hadn't had a girl friend throughout the whole of his 20 years life.
It wasn't very strange for someone who had no girl friend because it could be due to a lot of reasons like small social circle or some part of the character were just not promissing.
But there weren't any problem with him. He had wide group of friends, looks ok, and hardworking. He even introduced his 2 female friends who are very good looking to work.
That's when most of my male colleagues had the questioning of whether if he is gay. But he vowed that he is not!
The only issue with him was simple. He is only looking for someone who is ready to commit for a long term relationship.
Now for a guy to own this thinking is somehow or rather classify as a very unique specie. Many guys who would just heck it and just go for the nearest river to quench his thirst. Who is still looking for the big and wide ocean just right for him?
The reason for many people to have a good relationship is for the fear of commitment.
And in fact, I usually fall under that category.
I used to have a good guy friend who likes to mix around with girls and be a "good friend" to all of them. I always despise his way of 'mixing' around.
But he used to tell me: If you are commited to one, you only have one. But if you chose to be single, you can have more than one.
And what's wrong with having more friends to be with?
I couldn't help to agree with it now. Isn't it good to be a single with open choice?
The only thing that matters is till when?
When that true love comes, it will. And when that has not arrive, the rest are only passer-by.
This commitment problem only worries those who wish to settle down ASAP. Well if you happened to be that one, freak not. There are ways to get things done. *grin*
Till next time...
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