Telling someone you like him/her is rather difficult for some people. Especially when you are unsure of that person's feeling. Tradionally, guys are always the one who initiate the confession. Ladies will just have to drop hints here and there, hoping the one they like will somehow or rather 'catch' it.But ladies, is the 21st century!! We no longer have or must be the passive one waiting for the love confession to drop somehow. We can chose to be the one or not be the one to make the first step for our relationship. We have a choice which may or may not put us on a better position. Why do I say so?
The Pros
- No more waiting!
- No more guessing game!!
- Know instantly if is a open door or shut door for your relationship.
The Cons
- Making things too easy for guys
- Allow excuse for guys not to do anything
- Self-esteem
Of course all these above are my personal opinions. You either agree more or disagree more to it. It doesn't matter. What matter most is everyone went through the same stage or had the experience of struggling whether to express your love to the one you like.
To decide whether is a Yes to confess is not easy. A lot of courage are needed. Will the confession serves a back-fire to the friendship? Most Asian have this kind of in-depth consideration, while caucasians tend to be more open.
Don't have too many thoughts on confession. Trust and believe that confession is just a way to express your feelings. Caucasians did it so easily.
I had confession before and it was heart attack at the beginning. But it really gave me a clear picture on whether is it just only a friendship or love.
Relax, is just a confession. If too much thoughts given, nothing will get started. You can just wait and wait until the cows come home. Letting love just by-pass you time and again (no wonder you are still single). Be the proactive one for the ladies may be a bit hard if you measure it against the self-esteem. I understand. It is a give and take. You either be the taker or the giver. You chose.
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