Wednesday, February 27, 2008

#4 P.S I Love You


I know.
It is a good movie for all singles or people who are in love.
If you hadn't catch it, take action quickly!
It has been out for some time.
If you made it, share with us what's your thought on the movie.
I had a few crying babies around me in the theatre.
But yet, everybody had so much laughters too.
I guess if a man can do things like what the man did in the show,
I would die along with him.
Well, the fact is most of us just tend to miss out the details that happened around us.
It is only a bonus if you found one detailed person.
\(^0^)/
P.S: I Love You.
Showing on 14 Feb 2008 in Singapore!
Holly Kennedy (Hilary Swank) is beautiful, smart, and married to the love of her lifea passionate, funny and impetuous Irishman named Gerry (Gerard Butler).
So when Gerrys life is taken by an illness, it takes the life out of Holly.
The only one who can help her is the person who is no longer there.
Nobody knows Holly better than Gerry.
So its a good thing he planned ahead - by leaving her a list of tasks revealed in 10 monthly messages that are intended to ease her out of grief and transition her to a new life.

P.P.S: I love Irishman's Green eyes!

Saturday, February 23, 2008

#3 7 Ways To Spent A Date-Free Night!

Facing another date-free night?

Remember my very first post on Being Single, I mentioned about sharing ideas on how you can spent a date-free night? Before going on to the details, I must say that the followings are my personal lifestyle and it need not have to apply to everyone. Anyone who is reading this blog would probably have more ideas than me. (winkz)

Well, are you ready?? Let's go..........!!

(1) You BLOG!

Yes! Being a single allows you to have more time for your own. You're probably a blogger yourself while reading it. Then you'll probably understand sometimes inspirations doesn't come as smooth compared to some other days. At the same time, do you know you can get paid while inspirations are provided?

I'm not joking! You don't have to be XiaXue in order to earn through your blog. Blogsvertise is one of the sites that pays you for blogging. Once you have your account set up and verified, they will send you a product. All you need to do is just mention the product in your blog, provide 3 hyperlinks to their product, and you're done! No endorsement is required.


The minimum requirement is to have a blog (which most people does) and paypal account! Isn't it a good news to a single blogger? Blogsvertise allows you to earn cash and generate extra income from your blog. I've seen successful testimonials from internet marketers who have make use of it. So why not give a shot and see for yourself? It's completely free anyway. A Rich Single In Blogging. How nice? If you aren't a blogger yet, start now! More details on Blogsvertise.

(2) You LEARN!

Singles should always spent time and effort in gaining extra knowledges. First you meet people of the same interest as you open up your social circle. Second, you rise to become a more knowledgable person which adds values and substance to your conversations.

Not only that, you earn extra points once the positive aspects of yourself that is not physically observable are been distinguished. Inner beauty stands only when you bring them out. So if you spent effort on making your mind beautiful, in return you'll be happier.


(3) You CLEAN!

Clean a drawer, closet or a file. I believe for ladies' closet, a periodical cleaning is require. Revamping your closet not only helps in understanding your needs, it reminds of who you want to be. Don't underestimate the power of creating order. External order builds internal order.

(4) You PLAY!

I was playing Mahjong game with my friends last night. Having to said that doesn't mean we meet up and play physically. In fact we met online and played online. I was introduced to Viwawa. There are several games other than Mahjong like the sushi game which plays like Bejeweled and Match It, the memory game. It's a web-based game, no installation required and the platform works like Gunbound and Pangya.

The good thing is you can invite your other single friends into a room and start gossiping while playing Mahjong. If not, get to know more cyber friends if you want.

(5) You WATCH!

If I spent most of my time blogging, the second on the line is watching drama serials. I love dramas and movies, especially Korean. There are a few websites which hosts it. The most popular one will be the Tudou. It is a china site which has not only asian drama serials but american sitcoms too. You name it, they has it.

One of the most complete one that I've seen. Of course you got to search in chinese. If you've problems in hunt for a particular show, do leave me a message, I'll do my best to help. Not only that, I'll share about the shows that I've watched.

(6) You WORK OUT!

All the singles, time for some exercise!!! You work out, you shag out... It keeps your mind free, it keeps your body light, it keeps you from accumulating fats. Now move your body and stop being a crouch potato!

(7) You DRINK!

Ah-ann... You don't go pub/bar alone for drinks. What I meant was drinking coffee. My friend just start out a blog call Koolplaces4coffee. He really went around researching on coffees. He commented on the price, the service quality and the ambience of one's place. Recently he brought us to a very nice place with good views for a coffee. I shall not name where is it. Look out on his blog! *smilez*

Though his blog is not fully set up right now, I'm sure there will be more to come! I guess, for a single to have a drink alone is fine. Enjoying the night to yourself. Sometimes all we need is just some space for ourselves.

Finally, all 7 ways have been revealed. You may have the thought of 'hey, isn't this what I'm doing currently?". Well, yes you're right! We do things similarily because we are singles.

If you've other ideas or experience, do share with us. I hope you've enjoyed the date-free night!

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

#2 Caution! A Wedding Invitation!

I've been hearing from my friends talking about receiving wedding invitations from friends of their same age. Most of them got freak out when they're not ready for wedding themselves. Just when I was still delighted to receive none, there lies a pink envelope on my table this evening.

If you're in a relationship with the intention of getting marry, perhaps getting all these invitations serve a different purpose from those who are still single. Most of us trembles when we received the 'red bomb' especially when we're getting older. Even though we should celebrate and feel happy for our friends, at the same time it could be a wake up call for all of us.

It can be frightening sometimes. To make matters worse, your family starts dropping hints about settling down. Or maybe they say you've plenty of time, but you feel like time's running short!!

Whichever situation you're in, it is time to take a deep breath, swallow the last bite of wedding cake, and know that when the time and the person is right, it'll happen.

Take the opportunity to boast on how gorgeous and good-looking you are. Didn't someone said the chances of meeting The True One at the wedding places are much higher?

That's beside the point. In conclusion, don't compare yourself to other people, even if they're your friend. It's your life and your schedule.

(Well, I better go for a good dress-up now! )

Sunday, February 17, 2008

#1 Being Single

Among the friends that are single, some are always surrounded by painstaking bees but yet strangely they're just not getting themselves attached.

Whereas there're some who envy the good fortune of these friends and wonder where to find all these bees that throw onto them.

Just not to forget the handful of people who regained their status as single not too long ago.

Well, be it whether a bee is buzzing you or you've just simply walked out from a disaster relationship, the most important fact is we're singles!
Being a single is not necessary a bad thing. If you're divorced, separated, or have ended a good relationship, try to recall. Weren't there times that you wished you where single, because the relationship was putting a stop to you from doing some of the things you want to do.

At the same time, if you've been a single for quite some time, and was hoping/dreaming/desiring a good relationship that falls out from nowhere, the advice is never fall into the category of a desperate one.

You can go on dates, make new friends, go out and have a good time, without expecting everyone you meet to fall in love with you, or even wants to date you. With the least expectations, you'll reap the most out of it. Eventually, that someone special will come along.

Whether or not, you're single, it will be always great to have friends around to keep accompany, at the same point of time being a single doesn't mean you can't shop alone, dine alone or watch a show alone.

You're invited to share your ideas and your experience on how to spend a date-free night. Feel free to fill up the chatterbox, and meet some friends here!

Remember, no one needs to know how to be a pro in being a single. The most important thing is be happy while you're still single!

Saturday, February 16, 2008

Fall in Love with Being a Single

It's a Saturday night.
And you're all alone.
Perhaps earlier in the day, you were hoping someone ask you out for a dinner.
Or meet you up with a movie ticket.
You probably afraid all your friends have a date and turn you down if you've asked them out.

You've nothing else to do.
Turn on the TV and watch the same drama serial repeating umpteen times.
Go onto the MSN, trying to find a person whom you can talk to.
Surfing the internet, finding yourself all over the same old web page.
Try to update your blog, but there was nothing great to blog about for the whole week.

Then you stumble onto this blog. Fall in Love with Being a Single.
And You realise you aren't alone at all.